Five simple Rules to Try with Picky Eaters

Once upon a time, I gave birth to two very healthy bouncing baby boys.  They were pretty good eaters and meals/menus never produced an argument; well over food that is…  They ate a lot of amazing foods and it wasn’t abnormal to hear my oldest order salmon and broccoli when we were out to dinner, which we encouraged over the kid menu options.

At that time in my parenting I had no idea what it was like to parent a picky eater, meal times were fun and I thought I had it all under control.  Fast forward to the birth of my youngest, a surprise baby girl.  When I held her for the first time I had no idea that her DNA would be so differently programmed and by the time we arrived at the toddler stage I had no choice but to face the reality that I had birthed a Picky Eater.  Yes, I had officially joined the ranks of many other parents faced with the daunting dilemmas that accompany feeding a picky eater.

I had two choices, give in to her eating habits or further develop my tactical parenting skills to include  diverting a picky eater, which is exactly what I did.

Now, my youngest has turned 10 and I travel around cooking with kids in a six state region and often share experiences from my own kitchen counters.  Here are the top 5 rules that we adapted that became part of our success in learning to work around the picky eating issues:

1.  Create an experimental kitchen: Establish rules with a plan to try at least one new recipe a week.  Over time it becomes part of the regular routine and as it becomes expected it slowly, but surely becomes accepted as part of your family habits.  You can always add a new twist that appeals to your child’s imagination; visiting a country through flavors, aligning a recipe with your child’s favorite movie, trying a best friends favorite recipe.

ring of fire

Here is a link to our Ring of Fire recipe, which I created using ground turkey and vegetables when my boys were younger and learning about volcanoes was part of their scientific discovery.  It was a new twist on meatloaf and playing with our food helped them to discover new combinations.

2.  Cook with your Kids: Studies have proven that the more you cook with your children and involve them in the process, the more they are willing to taste test and the healthier they eat over all;  I have had this experience with my own children.

My daughter is not a banana eater, but love, love, loves Caterpillar Crunch a.k.a. crunchy banana bites and loves making it now all by herself!

Keep it SIMPLE! Your child does not have to want to be a chef to cook in the kitchen.  Let them lead the process, if they only want to pour in an ingredient or two, let them and pull out a simple project to go along with their interest.  But, if they want to spend more time, pick out something more lengthy and teach them as many skills as possible.

Recipes don’t have to be complicated to be fun!  In fact, we LOVE making smoothies.  Here is one of my personal favorites; strawberry.

3. Sneak, but Tell:  I have been the queen of the sneak attack!  And, by this I mean adding in a surprise ingredients that your children won’t eat alone.  However, the real key in the success of the ‘sneak’ is the ‘tell’.  When the kids were little we had a ‘thumbs up, thumbs down’ voting process.  Whenever I got the ‘thumbs up’ I told them WHAT they had eaten to help open their minds to realizing that through recipes they could get healthy foods in their bodies that they might not eat alone.

My Ground Turkey Enchilada recipe includes fresh spinach and tomatoes and picky eaters can’t even taste them, but it almost always gets a ‘thumbs up’ response!

4. The 10 Day Rule: I taught my daughter that our taste buds are always changing and as part of that reality we adopted the philosophy of re-trying healthy foods we didn’t like at one time if it had been 10 days or more.  It was magical how often she did make a new addition and move a food from the ‘dislike’ category over to the ‘like it’ list.

5. Use the Produce Aisle as your Experimental Tool: When my daughter was young she became intrigued with the many varieties of squash that would be on display each fall.  We began to play a game and each week I would let her select one intriguing squash and we would bring it home to cook and taste.  Once the fall had passed, we continued to use the produce aisle as an experimental station with both seasonal tries and foods you could find throughout the year that we had not yet tried.

 

 Here are our Squash Monsters that were birthed out of our experiment with spaghetti squash and finding a way to make it fun and interesting to eat.

Note: I recently wrote this article for Inner Child Food and am excited to be sharing there on a monthly basis.

 

20 Comments on “Five simple Rules to Try with Picky Eaters”

  1. What great advice! I can’t say my son is picky, by any means, but we have had some rough days. Thanks for coming to share at We Three Crabs! I always look forward to your posts.

    Erica
    We Three Crabs

    1. Some of the ideas can simply apply to making food fun ๐Ÿ™‚ Enjoy & I hope he remains non-picky (it is a plus – lol)

      Thanks for stopping by,
      ~ Jodie

  2. We could all use these tips. It seems like at least one of my kids don’t feel like eating what I’ve prepared at every meal!! We are starting a link up party on Thursdays (today:), and we would love for you to join us with this post and/or any others you would like to include. We are at allthingswithpurpose.com. Hope to see you there!!

    1. The ‘I want something different’ conversation is a whole other conversation – lol! Yes, we’ve had that one too…
      Our kids are all good at throwing us a curve ball or two :)!!!

      Thanks for the invite, I’ll pop over! Have a GREAT weekend & thanks for stopping by…
      ~ Jodie

  3. Great tips those for picky eaters! I need my sister-in-law to read this!! LOL Thank you so much for sharing at A Bouquet of Talent!! Love your awesome posts. Have a wonderful weekend.
    Hugs
    Kathy

    1. LOL! I have one of those too….hahaha
      Thanks for stopping by ๐Ÿ™‚ Have a wonderful weekend!!!
      ~Jodie

  4. Such great ideas! Truly I love all of them! I was such a picky eater as a child but have realized as an adult that most of my issues with food were all mental so the “Sneak but Tell” would have been a great thing for me back in the day! I’ll be filing this one away for future reference. Thanks! ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. Hi there! Thanks for stopping by ๐Ÿ™‚ – the sneak & tell has certainly helped my youngest (and me – lol)! Have a great week…
      ~ Jodie

  5. Great ideas Jodi. I also tell my grandies that just because they didn’t like something a few years ago they might now. Tastes do change. As a kid I hated pizza and blueberry pancakes. Love both now. I had 5 kids and all were so easy going and ate well. My youngest did hate all fish and seafood. She would die (not literally, lol) when ever I would cook it. She now loves seafood and even Sushi. Thanks for sharing with SYC.
    hugs,
    Jann

    1. Your thoughts go along with our 10 day rule :)! You are right – taste buds are always changing….but, I have to say you will be the first person I’ve met that hated pizza as a kid – LOVE IT!!! Have a GREAT week ๐Ÿ™‚
      ~ Jodie

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